1. Be Still
Life in the city has become strangely cut off from nature. So we must learn, or relearn, the practice and mastery of inner stillness, to become available for love. Stillness is an essential asset for any great relationship because it leads to the spontaneous act of falling in love, again and again. The key is to learn how to do nothing again. To sit under a beautiful tree, to watch the movement of water, to listen to the rain on an old tin roof. In these moments, with the phone turned off, and nothing to do, you and your lover can fall in love, over and over again, daily.
2. Romance
Love is cumulative. Little acts of forgetfulness add up to big problems of painfulness. Don’t wait for Christmas, Valentines day, Birthdays, or special occasions. Make every day of your life a Valentines day. Act like today is the most important day of your relationship. Turn up on time. Do something kind. Prioritize your lover over your work. All compromises in relationship add to it’s demise. Never forget, your relationship is the most important thing in the universe. Place it, not statues on your alter.
3. Hard Work is bad Management
Nature is incompetent sometimes. A tsunami reveals that small steps were not taken, and therefore a big adjustment is due. In your life, stay humble, stay incompetent, witness the fact that hard work is bad management. Stress reveals bad management. These are opportunities to systematize, rationalize or prioritize. Don’t back away from work load, grow your competence. Ask daily “how can I take on more, and do it with less” This is called turning up for love. Come home with more energy than you left for work with in the morning. That’s the measure of your investment in love.
4. Dream Matching
Teams do not function on common values. Teams are a bunch of great individuals, with individual hopes and ambitions, linking together to help each other achieve those outcomes. Relationships are bonded by dreams. Take time to do an annual vision quest, you and your lover, take a weekend and do a vision quest. You can email me at alive@chriswalker.com.au and I’ll send you the process. Or get the Sacred Love book online at www.chriswalker.com.au - it’s all there.
5. Love is a lifestyle
Love is not blind, people are. I make your lifestyle a devotion to love. Never let the crush of busy – ness get in the way of the most treasured and beautiful gift you can hope for. True love is a pearl, a precious gift from the heavens, natures greatest honoring, make your lifestyle a loving lifestyle. You can’t be a mean so and so at work and a loving partner at home. Love is a lifestyle.
Born and bred in Australia, Chris Walker consults to people and organizations throughout the world on improved relationships, health and lifestyle through the application of the Universal laws of Nature. The result he offers is that we stay balanced, share loving relationships, work with passion, enjoy success, and live our personal truth.
About The Author:
Chris Walker is a world leading change agent, an environmentalist and author of more than 20 books. Born and bred in Australia, he consults to people and organisations throughout the world on improved relationships, health and lifestyle through the application of the Universal laws of Nature. The result he offers is that we stay balanced, share loving relationships, work with passion, enjoy success, and live our personal truth. To learn more about Chris’s work and journeys to Nepal, visit http://www.chriswalker.com.au
Article Submitted On: October 28, 2006
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